Chapter: Reconciliation
Umm Kulthum, daughter of ‘Uqbah, said:
I did not hear the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) making a concession for anything people say falsely except in three matters. The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) would say: I do not count as a liar a man who puts things right between people, saying a word by which he intends only putting things right, and a man who says something in war, and a man who says something to his wife, or a wife who says something to her husband. - Sahih:Abu Dawud:4921 (islam)
-Is it pretty large, can I lie to my wife just to have peace?
- Can I lie to my friend just for him to feel good?
Chapter: What Has Been Related About Rectifying Manners
Asma bint Yazid narrated that the Messenger of Allah said:
"it is not lawful to lie except in three cases: Something the man tells his wife to please her, to lie during war, and to lie in order to bring peace between the people." - Sahih:Tirmidhi:1939 (islam)
-Does Quran say it is forbidden to Lie (22:30)?
- Is this hadith valid today?
- Can you lie during war?
- Is War deceit (Ibn Majah 2833)?
Chapter: Making Peace among People
Umm Kulthum bint 'Uqbah (May Allah be pleased with her) reported:
Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, 'The person who (lies) in order to conciliate between people is not a liar, when he conveys good or says (something) good".
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
The narration in Muslim added: She said, "I never heard him (she meant the Prophet (ﷺ)) giving permission of lying in anything except in three (things): war, conciliating between people and the conversation of man with his wife and the conversation of a woman with her husband".
- Sahih:Riyad as-Salihin:249 (islam)
Let not believers take disbelievers as allies rather than believers. And whoever [of you] does that has nothing with Allah, except when taking precaution against them in prudence. And Allah warns you of Himself, and to Allah is the [final] destination. - Quran:Ali 'Imran 3:28 (islam)
-Does the tfs says : "Al-Bukhari recorded that Abu Ad-Darda' said, "We smile in the face of some people although our hearts curse them. Al-Bukhari said that Al-Hasan said, "The Tuqyah is allowed until the Day of Resurrection." - Ibn Kathir"?
- What happen to you if you are sincere friend with an unbeliever?
- Is it a command from God to lie like that?
- How can you trust anyone with this divine permission to lie?
- What are the rules, is it only to save yourselves or is it to save the religion?
Whoever disbelieves in Allah after his belief... except for one who is forced [to renounce his religion] while his heart is secure in faith. But those who [willingly] open their breasts to disbelief, upon them is wrath from Allah, and for them is a great punishment; - Quran:An-Nahl 16:106 (islam)
-Is the punishment Hell or is it something in this world?
- Who is going to punish those apostates?
- What is the punishment for apostasy (Bukhari 6922)?
That [has been commanded], and whoever honors the sacred ordinances of Allah - it is best for him in the sight of his Lord. And permitted to you are the grazing livestock, except what is recited to you. So avoid the uncleanliness of idols and avoid false statement, - Quran:Al-Hajj 22:30 (islam)
-Is Quran says you are not to use words of falsehood?
